Thursday, September 30, 2021

Pumpkin Time!

I love that it's officially fall around here. When driving in Arcata, Kelvin saw that Warren Farms opened this past weekend for pumpkin picking and we headed there for some afternoon browsing (now that Niall has all but abandoned his nap, especially on weekends, we have more time to get out and about [but it is a bit of a sad end of an era, especially for napping Kelvin!]).  Early in the season, we had the pick of the place!

Peacocks at the entrance 


Fields of them!

Huge one!

Mini one!


The haul





Sunflowers!


 Corn maze fun


(We told Iver about 'Children of the Corn' prior to taking this photo).










Happy fall, y'all!

Monday, September 27, 2021

Recogiendo Manzanas


 

It's been a couple of years since we visited Fieldbrook Valley Apple Farms, but apple picking in the fall is always a hit with the kids.  This year, the recording on the farm's voicemail said that they were allowing on-tree picking, which is different than in past years, when you were only able to pick apples off the ground to press into cider (which was still an option, at a discount, if we desired).  Iver is also picking up a lot of Spanish in in-person first grade and was thrilled to recoger manzanas.


We were limited to picking apples on the trees ringed with green ribbons, which was an easy rule for the kids to follow. They were taught how to pick and not disrupt developing buds.




Showing off their big ones!






This guy cartwheels everywhere!









Iver and I dug out my old juicer, which has been shelved in the garage for a decade, and made our own cider, which was a nice treat!


Nos gustan manzanas! 

Sunday, September 26, 2021

ZOO-ming into fall!

I hope that the verb "Zooming" is being phased out, slowly.  I'm ready to ditch all things virtual and get back to normal in-person things as the seasons change... again. 

We ended our second "pandemic summer" on a 80-degree day in these parts, which is incredibly unusual (before and after that day, it has been in the usual 60s). 

We visited the Zoo and Redwood Skywalk last weekend as well, which still requires masking. 



Iver took these selfies.




We didn't *plan* to meet up with any friends, but ran into Clara/Ashton and their mom, Sarah (we live in a small area!) and the kids hung out in the petting area. I also saw Claudia, a birth center nurse, up on the Skywalk (recognizable even with masks).


This is how we all feel at this point in the pandemic, where time has seemed to pass interminably slowly at times... 


...but yet here we are nearing the end of 2021 which is hard to believe  (pandemic time is seriously warped and has been flying by for me this year)! It's officially now my favorite season (fall)! Bring on the cool mornings, sweaters, all things pumpkin spice, and warm drinks...

Thursday, September 23, 2021

Hope on the Horizon

 Isola dei Pescatori (photo by V)


My parents are in Italy right now, and my sister and her husband, Marco, just returned from their overseas trip there, the first in close to two years. Looking at their pictures makes me long so much for a true soul-recharging exotic vacation and the opportunity to travel again. While I am jealous of the adults-only-all-fully-vaccinated-vacations (while we're still constantly on edge about childcare quarantines over here), I do recognize that we (I mean those in our family) are far closer than we were a year ago to returning to "normal life."  2021 is the only year in my recent memory (perhaps ever in my life?) that I haven't been to a foreign country (we miraculously got to Patagonia before the world shut down in 2020). I'm hoping that we can make it to Jamaica in 2022, a resort trip we've planned with my parents.

The great news: children's COVID vaccines seem to be on the horizon! 



While I believe that quarantines for kids are unnecessary even now, public health officials at least in our state disagree, and I am hopeful that when the under-twelves are vaccinated, school, activities, and life will not be significantly (or at all) disrupted by the threat of (or actual) "COVID contacts."  While I am having a hard time daring to hope, as I thought there was a chance kids might be COVID-vaccinated prior to returning to school this fall (and that the pandemic would be winding to a close--neither of which has happened yet), a possible Halloween "stick or treat" shot for our oldest (which Kelvin thinks is actually quite realistic in terms of timing from what the news is telling) would be a huge blessing (even though "a couple of months" still seems a looong way off for us parents, and Niall is still under five).

Another sign of hope: in a season and after years of drought, we locally had some much-needed rain this past weekend, and the smoky skies aren't nearly as bad as one year ago.


I and many healthcare workers are struggling every week with the exhaustion and long hours that come with working during a (now, eighteen months in, preventable) pandemic and chronically short-staffed.  We are tired of answering calls or MyChart e-mails from unvaccinated (despite counseling) COVID-positive patients at all hours. We are tired of trying to get unvaccinated people in for rapid testing or their monoclonal antibody treatment when ill.  We are tired of seeing babies die because of maternal COVID and our primary care patients die in the ICU. We are tired of having the "vaccine talk" so we could be past this.  I am tired of taking one-in-three three OB call and pulling all-nighters on a regular basis.  That being said, we have some prenatal/delivering provider candidates who I think will sign on in the next couple of months to help share the call burden. Our current providers' maternity leaves will not be indefinite. And, at some point (especially when young kids are vaxxed), the collective "we" will have some sort of herd immunity, whether acquired or natural (new variants permitting). 

"Hope is being able to see that there is light despite all of the darkness." -Desmond Tutu

It's hard, but I am trying to let myself feel that light through the crack, just a little bit...

Sunday, September 19, 2021

Emotional Regulation

Iver is still on the "spirited/explosive" side as far as child temperaments go and we've been working hard on "calming" measures that he can use to work through his frustration especially when he gets into the "red zone."  In his first grade class, they have a "calm down corner" for kids.  During a calm morning, he came up with this chart of "good behavior choices" for when he's having a rough time which definitely made me chuckle. 


The beach has well-documented mental health benefits for emotional regulation, and we are thankful to live so close to great ones.  There's nothing like an afternoon of "beach therapy" to calm everybody down!