Tuesday, January 31, 2023

Weekend social time & love: parents' night out & puppies!

It was our friend Cila's birthday on Friday and Kelvin and I joined a rare adults-only night out at a Japanese (teppanyaki) restaurant in Eureka (Cila is also a new mom with a ~six-week-old and I was proud of her for claiming her adulting space! Arranging childcare always seems so overwhelming for us but it's getting easier, and we feel less bad relying on our other parent friends sometimes). Iver was thrilled to hang out with Hudson at Shannon's house (Niall went along with it but was less excited as there weren't littler kids there) and, although the kids stayed up very late (almost 11) as the group dinner was quite late, it was worth it! 


Cila & Shane

We've become great friends with Shannon & Brian

On Saturday, we went over to our friends Sarah and Tito's house to meet their new Bernese mountain dog puppy, Lucy. 

Iver enjoyed cuddling the frisky ball of fluff!

Sarah, Tito, and their daughter Clara are quite the musicians and showed Niall this tiny violin! 



Niall, happy during weekend shopping at the Asian store with a giant cat container.


One of my 2023 resolutions is to "get out more" and do more socializing instead of being an introverted hermit-- this weekend was a good start!  

Friday, January 27, 2023

Winter (Non) Performance

Iver had a winter performance for his school which was scheduled in December, but which got postponed for reasons I cannot recall. We were able to attend on Wednesday at his school's auditorium. Each of the grades (K-5) had their own musical number (there was percussion, singing, story-telling, ribbon-waving, ukeleles, some violin-playing and more ["HOW MANY MORE ARE THERE?! I'M HUNGRY!" shouted our soon-to-be-kindergartener, Niall]). Iver looked out at the audience and was happy to spot us when he walked onstage for his second grade number.

However, by the end of the program (an all-school song), he was obviously over the participation! 


When I sent the above photo to my sister-in-law, Katherine, she sent me back this LL "Winter Performance" picture from 2017 (Iver would have been ~3). 


Some things never change! 

Thursday, January 26, 2023

Illusions

Here are some snaps of the silly kids this week.

(Not the first time they've tried to become a Giant using my cozy fleece)

Iver! 

... look more closely.

Brother's turn.

Surprise (check the feet!). 


Tuesday, January 24, 2023

Happy Lunar New Year (from someone not Asian enough!)



It was the start of Lunar New Year (or Tết, pronounced "Thet," for the Vietnamese) on Sunday. I have blogged previously about the holiday and customs, which mean a lot to my in-laws, in past years. However, we didn't really do anything local to celebrate. I was on call and had a busy weekend delivering lots of babies wanting to be born in the "Year of the Rabbit." Then I saw our (Vietnamese) friend Mai's FB post wishing everyone a "Happy Year of the Cat" and I was really confused (I didn't feel so bad after I consulted with my full-blooded Vietnamese spouse).



When I had some time, I had to naturally verify and research the above and thought you might be interested in the difference, too!  


My in-laws (when they were here for Christmas) had great joy in dressing the (relutcant) kids up in traditional áo dài (pronounced ow-yigh).  We had a really hard time getting Niall to cooperate but finally got some photos. 









Here are the kids (also cute) back in 2021:


Here is the decked-out OC family:






The kids were happy with their red envelopes from relatives full of moolah (Iver is very into costs of things and $$ these days)!



Since I was so busy at the hospital, Kelvin and the kids did their own thing. They even watched some of the 49ers' playoff game at Josh and Kay's house, where the kids got to play with "Daisy" the rabbit (going along with the New Years theme!).



                   Whether it's a Happy Year or the Rabbit OR the Cat, Chúc mừng năm mới! I hope to get it right next year!

Wednesday, January 18, 2023

When there's no snow

We had our snowy trip to Sunriver for New Year's. We were hoping to have some snow for the kids this past weekend in the Mt. Shasta area but, alas, only got rain.  Despite seeing it so rarely being a "coastal kid," Iver isn't overly in love with the snow or wintry activities. He doesn't seem to mind cold weather when dressed in waterproof, warm clothing (despite being a highly sensitive kid!). He didn't love snowshoeing. He does like ice skating. We haven't attempted skiing or snowboarding lessons.  He does like sledding but didn't have great control with the saucer sled we brought to Sunriver so we purchased a more sleek "lightning sled" before this recent trip.  The kids (with Kelvin) took it out to the coastal dunes to inaugurate it before the trip. 




The sled moves kind of slowly on sand...


... but wipe outs seem less painful on sand hills, rather than hard snow/ice or puddles. 






Kind of like "The luge"! 





Monday, January 16, 2023

No Such Thing as "Bad Weather" (?)...


Pepper was due to have her third cataract surgery-related appointment in Medford on MLK Monday ( #1 was the consult, #2 was surgery and one day post-op).  Since MLK Monday is a clinic holiday and I was not on call, we decided to join Kelvin for another drive to OR and make a weekend out of it, heading northeast to the Mt. Shasta area for (we hoped) some more winter fun. 

Unfortunately, rain and wind (an “atmospheric river,” I’ve learned) continued to pummel Northern California after weeks, and the weather looked abysmal. 100% rain all hours of the day with temperatures too warm for snow didn't look like the best "adventuring" weather.  


Nevertheless, I'd much rather be out seeing something new than trapped inside an Airbnb rental with energetic kids. Now Iver has internalized the saying "There's no such thing as bad weather, only bad clothing" and so, prepared with waterproof snow pants, waterproof boots, and rainjackets over our winter coats (and despite Kelvin's reluctance), we ventured out of doors.

Castle Crags State Park in Castella, just outside of Dunsmuir, is supposed to have great hiking and stunning mountain views none of which, alas, were visible in the day's downpour (so we'll have to go back sometime). The road up to Vista Point was also blocked off (?due to flooding?) so we could only hang out and play around the various creeks which were quite full. 










We hopped across the river! 


After a slight calming down of the precipitation, we headed to hike to Hedge Creek Falls which we figured would be impressively full of water.





Sure enough, the water was ferocious!








The "cave" behind the falls was unpassable due to water, but the kids still had some photo fun.




"headless Iver"

In the afternoon, after the 49ers playoff game and during a one-hour break in the rain, we attempted a “scenic" city hike in Dunsmuir, along the railroad tracks and the Sacramento River (whose headwaters are in Mt. Shasta).

(NOT recommended by me)

The river was at a full 53 inches but not overflowing.

We had some good eats in Dunsmuir--shakes at Burger Barn just a couple of blocks from our apartment...


... and famous Yak's Burgers. (Niall is frequently confused and upset when "cheeseburgers" include a beef/meat patty and asked for just bacon and cheese on his. And then ate none of it).


We had a really cozy rental downtown, with games (Iver beat me at chess and taught Niall checkers).

Snuggling up by the electric fire.

We are so happy that, with the gift of sight, our little doggie can travel with us again!  Full arms! 

The rental even provided some pup perks like treats!



On Sunday, we headed just slightly north to Mt. Shasta and hoped to do some sledding down Snowman's Hill; however, the access road was also closed, likely due to the rainy weather.

We then drove to the trailhead at Faery Falls and, after a couple of false starts (once to private and land and another down an unmarked path), found our way thanks to another woman hiker and her doggie.

The trailhead had snow. 




The falls are apparently gentle and wispy (like fairies!) in the spring and summer but were bursting with water with the winter storms! 



We then headed north on the I-5 about an hour and a half to Ashland, Oregon. We had a lovely view of (14,180 ft.) Mt. Shasta on the way as the weather finally cleared a bit (alas, no skiing was to be had on this trip although we brought gear just in case). When I told Niall to check out the mountain, he said "Agh, that's just a hill full of trees."


In Ashland, at Iver's request, we checked out the outdoor ice rink by Lithia Park and fortuitously made it there just as open recreational skating hours started (there was also a hockey tournament going on. And the rink had been closed the past two days due to weather!). 


Iver, in his second time on ice skates, rocked it!


Niall wanted to play at the playground across the street instead of skate.





Then Iver requested little brother (and I) join in on the family fun.

 


When Iver and I both fell on the ice after a game of "tag" with Kelvin, we called it a skating day.

I had heard good things about ScienceWorks, a hands-on science museum in town, and we headed there next.

Bouncing balls


Light trickery 

Trains!

The art of pulleys!



The kids had a wonderful time with the various exhibits on gravity, lift, magnets, optical illusions, anatomy, and more.

We overnighted in nearby Medford and had an early morning appointment for Pepper's two-week post-op check, which gave her good healing marks!  She also is apparently a wonderful and beloved doggie ophthalmologic patient, as many staff members came to greet her! 


We lucked out as the weather driving the 3.5 hours home from Southern Oregon was sunny and, although there were some brief one-way road stops and the kids were mildly bored, the roads were cleared of trees and we made good time. 

Kelvin has to take Pepper back to Medford at the end of the month for (we think?) the last of her post-op appointments.  While we know our state needs rain, with hope, our skies (and Pep's eyes) will stay clear for a while!