Friday, December 29, 2023

Top Ten Reads of 2023

I read 76 books in 2023!  Keeping track of my books on Goodreads and Facebook albums has been a great way for me to share my favorites with friends and family and to remember the titles and authors I've really enjoyed.  I have blogged/shared my top-ten lists for the past several years.   Below are my top ten books read in 2023, in order by when I read them, although I do think The Winners, up first, was my absolute favorite. 


I'm not sure if "leaving it all out on the rink" is said in the sport of hockey, but WOW! (to use another baseball analogy)-- Swedish author Fredrik Backman hits another one out of the park here. His latest novel, The Winners, is the third in the "Beartown" Trilogy and is a 668-page saga following the residents of a forest down obsessed with hockey set a couple of years after the rape of Maya, which threatened to destroy the town and neighboring (rival) Hed. This book is about so much more than ice hockey, though. It's about messy, flawed humans, the challenges of parenting, teen loneliness, love and relationships, work-life balance, loyalty, betrayal, losing, and winning. It's about life, death, and everything in between and Backman's breathlessly captivating writing, humor, and depth of emotions as well as the characters will stay with you long after the last page.


On Rotation was the delightful debut novel by a Ghanaian-American physician and author which tells the story of Angela, a medical student trying to make a meaningful difference in the demanding and often unrewarding field of medicine (something I know a lot about!) while also juggling matters of her own heart (with new but complicated love interest Ricky) as well as her African parental/cultural expectations. Funny and heartwarming! 

This memoir was an incredible read while we were abroad in El Salvador for spring break. It chronicles poet Javier Zamora’s adventure as a solo nine-year-old as he flees his native El Salvador through Central America to join his parents in "La USA." Your heart will break reading about the hardships of facing dishonest people and coyotes, fear of and deportation by "La Migra," but you'll also be amazed at the kindness and love he is shown, particularly from other "migrantes" along the way. No human is illegal.  



Wow!!  I couldn't have more superlatives for this book if I tried. Remarkably Bright Creatures is the heartfelt debut novel by Shelby Van Pelt which tells the story of a remarkable friendship between an aquarium cleaner Tova, a stoic widow grieving both her husband's death from cancer and the mystery of her son's disappearance as a teenager decades before, and a Giant Pacific Octopus (Marcellus). Uniquely told from their different points of view and involving another major character, Cameron, whose connection with Tova is explained as the book unfolds based on incredibly smart Marcellus' clues and communication, this book will leave you amazed and also reconsidering how such a smart animal can ever be humanely confined in a tank. 





The author of this sweeping novel, Abraham Verghese (who also wrote Cutting for Stone) is an incredible storyteller as well as a medical doctor currently working at Stanford. The fictional book chronicles the life of three generations of Christian Malayali living in South India (Kerala) during the twentieth century, starting with a twelve-year-old child-bride, who marries into a family in which a peculiar "condition" (an aversion to the omnipresent water and death by drowning) afflicts various members of the family. Many generational secrets are revealed in this incredible book, which has hefty and very interesting doses of medical and surgical details and knowledge, passionate love stories and relationship drama, history, politics, and amazing words and manifestations of faith in God. My mom told me that the estate (Parambil) where much of the book is set reflected much of her childhood in South India. I could not put down this (long!) page-turner, and tears were streaming down my face as I finished the last chapter. 


Australian OB-GYN Dr. Catherine Hamlin and her husband Reg moved to Ethiopia to start a midwifery school. What ensued was a lifelong dedication to medical practice helping victims of obstetric fistulae (resulting from obstructed labors and distances from medical centers, injuries almost never seen in first-world countries) and opening a "Hospital by the River" to surgically heal almost 90% of these unfortunate and often-ostracized patients, who, after years of incontinence, shame, and isolation can go on to lead happy, fulfilled lives. Birth nerds will really enjoy this really inspirational and hopeful book by a Christian woman called to serve "The least of these..."




Book Lovers, a title which caught my eye for obvious reasons, was my first book I read by Emily Henry, and I have subsequently read others (all funny and delightful romances)! This rom-com features Nora Stephens, type-A  New York City-based book agent, who goes on a trip to small-town North Carolina's Sunshine Falls with her very pregnant sister to bond. Surprisingly, gruff editor Charlie Lastra who she knows from NY is actually from the small town... and book lovers connect.  Fans of Colleen Hoover will enjoy Emily Henry's books, too (which are a bit less twisted).


Hello Beautiful was in high demand for e-reader loan and so I finally borrowed it in print from our local library on many others' recommendations. The novel tells the story of essentially abandoned child and basketball star William Waters, whose life changes when he marries into the close-knit Padavano family. Themes of family, love, forgiveness, grief, and second chances, are explored in this emotional novel, which I really enjoyed. 


Demon Copperhead was a long, deep, often depressing but ultimately hopeful book about the resilience of Demon (Damon), orphaned at a young age in the hills of Appalachia, bouncing from foster home to foster home, and trying to forge a meaningful life despite the curse of poverty, a culture of despair and opiate addiction, and not mattering enough. 


I loved Rebecca Makkai's The Great Believers and in this novel, the protagonist and narrator, podcaster Bodie Kane, returns to her New Hampshire boarding school, Granby, to teach a course. In doing so, she starts rousing up long-buried memories regarding the death (decades earlier) of her former roommate, Thalia, and attempts to recover the true story of her murder and probable wrongful conviction (à la Serial). The book was extremely well written and a real page-turner. 


Here are my previous years' favorites:
2022


Monday, December 25, 2023

Wrapped with a Bow: A Joyful, Perfect Christmas 2023

"Christmas Day is in our grasp, so long as we have hands to clasp. Christmas Day will always be just as long as we have we. Welcome Christmas while we stand, heart to heart, and hand in hand."- Dr. Seuss, The Grinch Who Stole Christmas



Christmas 2023 was truly a joy!  I have to say that December generally brings me a lot of "festive stress," which takes away from my Christmas contentment, but this year everything went so well. This year, I shopped and prepped a lot early, and we declined any Christmas travel-- I also had the holiday OFF of work (and a three-day weekend!), which was truly amazing.  We had plenty of time to enjoy friends' company, as well as partake in the holiday things I truly enjoy-- Church, music and carols, holiday lights, and a low-key day spent (mostly) in PJs at home.

Arcata's Jacoby Storehouse, a few days before Christmas



On Thursday night, we drove to First Covenant Church in Eureka, which held (on two days) a free, outdoor drive-through living nativity with narration of the Christmas story and live models (many of whom were kids). This was a first for our family, and the kids (and we) enjoyed it!



Niall shouted out from the car window, "IS THAT A REAL BABY OR A FAKE BABY?!" (Jesus was represented by a doll, "Mary" informed us).



On Friday night, Shannon hosted a "Kids' Christmas Party" (although adults were welcome too) with tons of fun games, including a candy cane hunt, outdoor "snow"(puff) ball fight, a pass-the-saran-wrap-and-unwrap game, "head/basket-toss," and a wrap-a-tree. The food, fun, and fellowship were delightful! 






Tween & teen carolers


On Saturday, we went to brunch at Kellie's and enjoyed time with her and Jenna's family, with delicious food including a baked egg/sausage casserole and vegan scramble (and a yogurt bar I supplied for the picky kids), as well as board games.

We had been meaning to drive around McKinleyville to view the holiday lights as part of the 4th Annual Christmas Lighting Contest for many days, but finally found the time to fit it in on Christmas Eve Eve. 

 
Our friend, Jenn, entered the contest and did a great job decorating!



This every-square-inch-of-real-estate-covered house is very close to our house ("The dog couldn't even find a spot to pee in that yard!" remarked our kids :)).


NOT HOSTING Christmas was a huge blessing (I am hesitant to host because I'm not a big-crowd person, and I also fear I'll poison guests with my cooking).  My kids won't eat turkey, ham, prime rib, or seafood, so we made an easy food-time of the weekend.

Would it be Christmas without Chinese food? (Our local restaurant is actually closed on Christmas, although traditionally, many Chinese places are open).

On Christmas Eve, we did sushi at home (including salmon and poke bowl for the adults).

We attended two Christmas Eve services -- the morning one at New Heart (including cinnamon rolls!) and the afternoon Children's Mass at St. Mary's. 



So dapper and grown up!



Iver has been altar serving at church and volunteered again.


Traci led the children's choir, which included diminutive Niall (who loves to sing but can't really read yet :)).


(we lowered the music stand to accommodate his stature-- he was the youngest kid in the group!).


Up front for 'Silent Night'


The kids wrote (last minute-- thanks, Kelvin!) letters to Santa and set out some cookies, milk, and carrots.



Christmas Day started bright at early with a 5:30 a.m. family snuggle (Niall, who has been eyeing the wrapped gifts all week, has been "SO EXCITED" for Christmas Day.  He even asked me if I could hide the wrapped gifts last week since they were sooooo tempting "in his face all the time"! It was dark when he woke up, and he was convinced it was still nighttime, but Iver, who is more time-savvy, rolled into our room at 6:01 ready to start the day!).

We headed out to the living room around 6:15, where we found that Santa had delivered! 



The kids were showered with so many lovely gifts from us and family (only a few pictured here)

Soccer ball & Spidey toys from Kat , Ba, and Ong


Thank you, Inara and John, for the HUGE shipped box of gifts!

Thanks, Grandma and Grandpa!

I got more than a Christmas robe (check out this hilarious SNL skit Kellie sent me) and this lovely frame. Kelvin got me some cool travel items including a nice hand bag, a new toiletries kit, battery juice pack, and gloves.


Close up:


Our living room, circa 7:15 a.m.! 


Even Pepper had some treats in her stocking, although she preferred to steal candy from the kids'.

I hadn't planned any special Christmas breakfast, but Iver decided to make "Christmas Pavlova" (something I'd never even heard of), which included making and baking a meringue of sorts, then adding cream and fruit!




Kelvin had been gifted a lovely spice packet, which I put on to simmer, and everything was super cozy. 

I do love me some smells of Christmas!


If you haven't found out about the Netflix fireplace, you're missing out! 

We even decorated a Gingerbread "Chateau" (which Iver now pronounces "Sha-tay-ew").


Since the weather cooperated, we got a family bike ride in, I went for a ~5-mile run, and we plan to watch a 49ers game later.  There really have been years when I've been a Christmas (well, mostly December) Grinch. I must say that, as the kids have gotten older, I enjoy (what can be an overwhelming slog of) gift-giving more as they have their unique personalities and interests. They also appreciate the holiday magic (and the work that goes into the making of it!) more, which is so fun.  I have to say that this year was the best and most perfect Christmas I have enjoyed since being a parent!  It truly has been the most wonderful time of the year!