Wednesday, May 28, 2014

The Salem Indian Wedding


On Sunday afternoon/evening before Memorial Day, we celebrated the marriage of Maya (a friend of Kelvin's from UCLA) and Ananth, who we met last year when we visited Seattle, where they met and both live. The wedding was at Zenith Vineyards north of Salem as Maya's family is from the Portland area.

The ceremony followed traditional Hindu customs and was conducted in Sanskrit by a priest from a Portland temple. While I have been to two other Indian weddings (one a Christian wedding, and the other a Sikh), this was completely different. I can't say that I really followed much of the ceremony, both due to the language and the distance/lack of view of the altar, but it included greetings of both families, rituals and pooja, "taking of seven steps," throwing ghee and rice into the fire, and blessings from other family members.  

It was pretty informal-- many of the guests were wandering around the grass during the ceremony, getting refreshments, and carrying on conversations...   I'd estimate that about 80% of the guests were Indian!  My allergies were also incredibly bothersome during the (outdoor) ceremony, with one eye red and sore, so I was struggling a bit.

Pretty ladies in saris

The altar
 


Ananth rode in on a horse



Maya was accompanied by her sister

The bride and groom threw these garlands over each other's heads


Walking down the aisle with their families




Up front




The reception included an awesome slideshow engineered by Ananth, the engineer, an Indian buffet (including some non-veg options), a dessert bar, and plenty of dancing!

The happy couple

 Kelvin stole a picture with the bride
 

Here is Kelvin with Louise, another UCLA bud

delicious desserts

 Dancing!

Indian weddings are fun!

Monday, May 26, 2014

Salem: Psych History and Plant Life



We did some sightseeing in Salem, Oregon's capital, on the day and morning before the wedding.

The Oregon State Hospital is the site of the Museum of Mental Health, which details the history of the state's main mental hospital and, while small, has some very interesting exhibits.









"Hydrotherapy" (1952)

Restraints


"One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest" was filmed here!



Kelvin, acting crazy




adapted spoons for the residents








Poisioning (roach poison in place of powdered milk), 1942



Pep enjoyed roaming in Bush's Pasture and Park.




There were some lovely (and free) flower farms north of town. Although my allergies were horrendous in Salem (despite triple therapy of Aller-tec, Nasonex, and Patanol eye drops), it was still nice to stroll through the blooms.


Adelman Peony Gardens










A to Z of Peonies




Schreiner's Iris Gardens







Minto-Brown Island Park was another great city park with an off-leash dog area. Pep loved frolicking with these other pups!



We stayed in a nice studio apartment in south Salem with land behind it... which was perfect for Pepper to roam. We had our own kitchen, bathroom, laundry (if needed) and plenty of space to relax. Airbnb did not let us down!