Saturday, February 15, 2025

Sweet Seven!

 Our littlest guy is seven! 





Niall is now SEVEN! He's still a tiny guy-- ~38 lbs and about 3 ft 8 inches (another weigh-in and growth check is coming next month to keep an eye on it as we didn't want to be remiss). He's in size 4-5T clothing, and size 10-11 shoes. He hasn't lost any teeth yet, which we find quite interesting but apparently is not a concern of his dentist! He loves skinny jogger pants, zip-up hoodies especially a navy PUMA one which you may recall from many pictures, some new-ish waterproof high-top shoes, and being warm and cozy (like his mama).  He is doing well in school, well-liked by teachers and students alike, and surprises us often with his vocabulary, sharp memory/recall, and mental math skills!

He still doesn't really eat much meat or protein, but will eat tofu, eggs (especially the cheesy eggs he's learned to make), chicken (or faux meat) in nugget form, pho meatballs, and occasionally turkey bacon.  He loves noodles, soups, rice, cheese, milk, yogurt, and his favorite fruits are berries. He will eat cucumbers, and can be coaxed to eat green beans, broccoli, peas, corn, and raw carrots. He definitely has a sweet tooth, and loves chocolate and ice cream. 

He sleeps more than Iver did at his (any) age, even past 7 a.m. on some weekends! He has occasional nightmares (or gets cold) and likes to walk over to our room/ snuggle in bed with us. He loves lying on the floor "heater vents" to get cozy, snuggled in his blue blanky and a larger fleece one, and lying on a heating pad to drift off to sleep. 

He still loves being read to (his favorite books include the Dragon Masters Series, and he's started to get into Wings of Fire and Harry Potter). He's learning to read and does pretty well at grade level.  He loves pencils, notebooks, and paper crafts.  He has great pitch and is very self-motivated to practice the piano (thanks to the Simply Piano App, a gift from my parents for Christmas). He's gotten interested in some tablet games (Minecraft and Duo Lingo math), and likes to watch kiddie cartoons on the weekends.  He likes to wear his watch and can tell time on an analog clock.  He still likes to build things, and also likes hoarding 3-D printed objects and shopping for small "things" (we're considering an allowance soon!).  We're working on his grace (when losing) in board games, as he's pretty competitive (like his brother), and has picked up Monopoly and Chess.

He can ride a bike (still, we think!) although it's been a while since we took it out, and he's back in swim lessons to get him more confident in the water. We'll be skiing next week and will sign him up for a couple of days of ski school, over his objections. He's more energetic and getting more interested in sports like his brother, including running, racquet sports, football "catch," and basketball.  He and Iver actually get along pretty well these days, despite normal sibling conflict and competition over what is "fair."


He is generally a very even-tempered, sweet, creative, snuggly, and happy kid.

We hosted a small birthday party for him last Saturday, where he invited a few friends (all the G's-- Grant, Gene, and Georgie), along with some older kids (friends of our family), where they played bowling and laser tag and enjoyed some chocolate cake we baked.







Proud of his high score!


We let him open presents from family on Valentine's Day since we're going on a little road trip for Presidents' Week.

Some cookware!



He also got some dragon books (Small Flames), a glow-in-the-dark Quip electric toothbrush a landmarks building kit, wallet, and some Harry Potter activity books from my parents!


Here's to growing, and another great year!


Tuesday, February 11, 2025

Super Bowl LIX

Iver has recently gotten into (watching and playing) football, so we've had it on a lot in our house, along with talk of players and stats.

I thought it might be a good year for the Bills but, alas, Josh Allen couldn't get it done against Patrick Mahomes, who is just too dominant (with some help from the refs) ! 



We were excited to see the Washington Redskins make the NFC Championship game led by exciting rookie, Jayden Daniels. 



In the Big Game, I was rooting for the Eagles, even though I have no Philadelphia ties. I don't like dynasties and a three-peat for the Chiefs (who beat our Niners last year) sounded too much like a monopoly (even though I don't actually mind Patrick Mahomes, who has the potential to be one of the greats)! 


We went to our friends' (Jen and Miles') house to watch the game, enjoy food, and enjoy NOT hosting like we did last year. The kids (so.many.boys!) played some outdoor football in the cold-but-sunny weather, and I mainly got to enjoy the game in piece in the warm indoors (some people watched from the TV on the outdoor deck- BRR!) while chatting with friends. I was actually shocked that the Eagles held the Chiefs scoreless through most of the game, and that they pulled off the win. 


I honestly cannot recall a past Super Bowl game where the team I was rooting for won the game! I was excited to see the Eagles take home the trophy on Sunday! 

Saturday, February 8, 2025

Homemade Root Beer



Iver got a root beer making kit from Santa for Christmas and he tried it out last week. We had to make a yeast-water mixture and a root beer-extract/water/sugar mixture, and then let it sit on the counter for a few days for carbonation.




I'm not quite sure what went wrong, but ours never got bubbly-- we have flat root beer in a milk jug.  I think we'll try again for round #2!  

Sunday, February 2, 2025

A long month

It's going to be a long four years of a Trump regime.  I'm having a hard time balancing staying informed while trying not to be so outraged from the news that my mental health takes a serious hit. I wonder if/how his extreme supporters (and even reluctant voters) will feel any of the pain from what this administration promised to inflict and has already started implementing, including effects on health centers and the "least of these." How do I find and show mercy/compassion/grace for those complicit in his extreme cruelty? 


















 

Tuesday, January 21, 2025

LBJ, MLK

 

We've had some nice January weather lately--and a three-day weekend to boot for MLK day without any work! It was time for me to drag everyone away from the screen (full of NFL football- and Australian Open tennis-watching!) for some winter hiking.




We drove about 45 minutes north of us (passing the trusty elk herd) and tried to visit the Lost Man Creek Trail just outside of Orick (which had been closed for a bit and was new for us); however, when we got to the trail start, a government worker closed the gates, stating that the trail wasn't safe due to a bridge issue.  We pivoted to the nearby Lady Bird Johnson Grove, which was dedicated to the former first lady Lady Bird, an environmental activist and lover of these redwoods, by Richard Nixon in 1969.  We also walked a short way on the Redwood Creek Trail, which Kelvin and I did ourselves back in 2020.


Snack time!


One kid (like me) likes to be cozy...

 




... while the other is comfortable hiking in 37-degree weather wearing shorts, and throwing a football around!



We watched NONE of the inauguration, and I personally am going to try to stick my head in the sand, staying away from reading painful news or much social media, for the next four years. Time outside in nature is, of course, the best for this!







Tuesday, January 14, 2025

Junior Journalist?

 


Niall gets bored at church and apparently this is what he "does," copying the local journal (North Coast Journal."

He chronicled the December earthquake and tsunami alert...


..., and more recently the LA wildfires, which have us thinking of Kelvin's family.


(Everyone is safe in OC and Katherine/August in LA county are not under evacuation alert).
Journalism, prayers and rain are good! 




Thursday, January 9, 2025

#LadiesOfNPS say good-bye

 “How lucky am I to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.”
        -AA Milne, The Complete Tales of Winnie-the-Pooh


If you received/read our family's Christmas letter, you know that 2024 was a rough year!  We pivoted on vacation spots due to the middle east conflict, fled a devastating wildfire on vacation in Canada, lost our beloved 14-year-old pup, Pepper, to heart failure, faced the closure of our local birth center in October, and then endured more terrible election results where he-who-shall-not-be-named prevailed against the better-qualified candidate and superior human being.  The grief and change has been almost too much to process and bear, although we just continue to put one foot in front of the other, and continue to work through it all...

Today, I worked my last day (morning) and saw my very last patient ever at NPS, the delightful and homey prenatal clinic at which, alongside the most amazing team of staff one could imagine, I've served patients and families for over thirteen years (and at which I had my own prenatal visits). After the Mad River Birth center closed, we weren't sure what the future held for our prenatal site. Due to resources, space, and other organizational reasons, Open Door decided that it made the most sense to consolidate prenatal programs under one roof in Eureka. Unfortunately, we were given about one month's notice to swallow the news (although we negotiated for two, having a hard time coming to terms with the abrupt changes and knowing our patients would struggle additionally with little time to adjust to more whiplash).  The prenatal sites are both closed tomorrow (MOVE DAY), so that beds, equipment, supplies, papers, and more can be transferred from town to town to the other prenatal building, RCHC.  

(Now closed for more than lunch)


I was extremely sad when we learned about this (latest) change, grieving another huge community loss. NPS has had a small group prenatal practice with high continuity and satisfaction for patients, families, staff, and providers alike. The COVID pandemic challenged us all (and led to quite a bit of burnout), and, while several incredible prenatal nurses that are dear friends have moved away to other local positions, and providers have also left (or retired from birth work) over the years, we still maintained an extremely high quality of patient care, something uniquely special and unlike anything I have experienced anywhere or any other time in my career. I've delivered multiple children of multiple families, which is incredibly special to me and gets us treasured handwritten notes, cards, and baby photos!



I also have loved commuting 10 minutes to and from work and being able to drop off my kids at school and pick them up (now, likely, and sadly, a thing of the past).  And, although we will be continuing prenatal services at RPS/RCHC in Eureka and, with hope, will continue to offer high-quality and personalized care, I know there will be some kinks that need to be worked out and a tough adjustment period for staff and patients alike.  It's so hard when things that have been working so well for so long come to an end (for reasons out of one's control), and change. is. so. hard (especially for "dinosaurs" like me).

Christmas party photobooth photos from years past...

From a White Elephant Christmas Party- IYKYK


(#LadiesOfNPS, including Aileen, Molly, Dani, and Kayla)


One of the very last sessions at this workstation, my second home


I'm genuinely trying to find the silver linings in the clinic merge (additional exceptional colleagues and less care fragmentation are a plus!), despite the upheaval of everything we've been through in recent months. I've accepted the changes (even logging of EPIC today and walking off campus without tears), am looking ahead to effecting positive change at my "new" job location. Nevertheless, today, I reflect and hold space for grief and feelings, grateful for the wonderful years and laughs I've had and all the friends and memories I will keep despite this conclusion. It's been a huge blessing and privilege to work with the best humans and at the best prenatal clinic around...