Monday, May 16, 2022

School attire of choice

Iver has been insistent on wearing his one zip-up hoodie, beanie, and sunglasses for school for the past several weeks. His recent addition is a badge and Kelvin made the kids their own badges with their pictures to match ours (his badge shows the whole get-up which, thankfully, he agreed to remove for school pictures a few weeks ago).



Niall suddenly started requesting "camo" wear last week as one of his friends was wearing it.  Here he said, "you can't see me! I'm camouflaged!"


We somehow had a couple of pairs of camo pants (one was slightly too small) but he's been wanting to wear them daily since! 

Sunday, May 8, 2022

Authentic Motherhood


Mother's Day is a complicated day for many. There are the women who've lost their moms, or who are estranged from their own moms (or children). There are women who have lost children, or yearn to have them.  There are women who, in many places in the U.S., will now be forced to become mothers against their will without adequate support. 
 


In the spirit of authenticity (I've been listening and reading a lot of BrenĂ© Brown lately), there are also mothers who constantly feel and fear that we're not doing a great job of mothering.  It's certainly the hardest job there ever was, not one you can quit, and sometimes you wonder if what you do/say/model matters at all.  I recently read a heartbreaking book called the School for Good Mothers, in which a single mother (after her husband leaves her for a younger woman in the postpartum period) has a lapse in judgment and leaves her toddler home alone for a few hours; what follows is forced enrollment in a reform school for "bad mothers" where she is constantly evaluated for her fitness as a parent.  Haven't we all questioned how well we're doing as parents or whether we're really cut out for this job? 



I intentionally didn't visit FB much today, as the gleefulness of so many mothers and families, without showing some of the hardest parts of parenting, gets to be a bit much for me (even though I don't doubt some of these mothers’ joy and that they were really enjoying their days).  We struggle constantly in our house with managing extreme explosiveness and defiance and holding boundaries while maintaining empathy, when the latter has been pretty depleted. This year's Mother's Day weekend (one of the most rainy ones I remember in years) was not an occasion free from angry outbursts and screaming, power struggles, wrestling that got too physical, or tears (not all of which were the kids’).


However, during some seasons of storms, you still celebrate the sun.

On Saturday afternoon when the rain broke, we had an outdoor dinner. Iver set the tables and put out a "Happy Mother's Day" placemat. I donned my fleece robe for the occasion :)


We went to a kids' production of the 101 Dalmations featuring our friends' daughter, Clara (as "Patch").


On Mother's Day morning, I woke up to several hand-made gifts-- cards, a paper bouquet and a chicken (?!) from Iver, and a paperweight from Niall.


Iver "got up early" (well, just as early as he always rises) with Kelvin (while I slept in until 6:40) to thoughtfully prepare me "something mama would like"- some hard-boiled eggs and a salad (even though I'm not sure I've ever consumed salad for breakfast)!


He modeled this certificate after one he got from his school (the "Building V. House" part was modeled after the "Building Character" text which was printed on his). 


I attended virtual church while hanging out with Niall when Iver and K went to Sunday school and shopping.  We tried to go on a neighborhood walk (but got rained on), FaceTimed with our moms (Happy Mother's Day, even though apparently our cards never made it to you!!), read a lot of library books, and watched a few episodes of the Netflix Show "Old Enough," which features young Japanese children being sent on questionably age-appropriate errands (our kids think it's hilarious. And maybe they feel empowered to independently go grocery shopping now). I cooked my banh mi bowl dinner, which may be the only home-cooked meal not involving sausage or cheese that is eaten by my kids without complaint (whining about food is one thing I knew could not handle on this Mother's Day).

In twenty years, will my kids be kind, well-adjusted people who contribute meaningfully to the world?  I can only hope (and continue to worry daily that I don't screw up mothering too much; I'm really just aspiring to be "good enough"). We will see.  At least they'll probably remember that I made them eat their vegetables. 

Above and Below the Sequoias


Sequoia Park in Eureka is a lovely place to walk amongst the majestic trees. 

Iver attended a birthday party there last weekend while I was on call, and Kelvin and Niall reactivated our family gift membership and popped over to nearby Sequoia Park Zoo.

The (relatively) new Skywalk, a major attraction, was open for visiting.



They could actually spot Iver playing tag in the park from the Skywalk!
"Where's Iver?"

(Zoom in; he's wearing a black shirt)


They spotted the elusive bush dog which, in years of going to this zoo, we'd never seen out and about (or well/un-injured)!


The Otter Tube

We've been having an extremely rainy week (good for the drought but not great when you have active kids who don't like to be cooped up). In a break in the May showers, we donned our boots and went back to Sequoia Park on Saturday morning to walk the trails.



Even Pepper made it to the duck pond








We love the trees and do need the rain but appreciate the interludes of sun! 

Thursday, May 5, 2022

"Pro-life"

“Only the US forces you to give birth while forcing you to pay tens of thousands of dollars to give birth while not letting you have time off to give birth." [Original source unknown]











Condors Fly Again


 From The Lost Cost Outpost and also reported in AP News


"Yurok Tribe release:

At 8 a.m. on Tuesday, May 3, the Yurok Tribe and Redwood National and State Parks will facilitate the release of the first two California condors to take flight in the center of the bird’s former range since 1892. Prior to their release, the condors must voluntarily enter a designated staging area with access to the outside world. If the birds do not enter the transition zone by 4 p.m., a second attempt to release the birds will occur at 8 a.m. on Wednesday, May 4. The carefully designed release procedure is one component of a comprehensive management plan for the reintroduction.

“For countless generations, the Yurok people have upheld a sacred responsibility to maintain balance in the natural world. Condor reintroduction is a real-life manifestation of our cultural commitment to restore and protect the planet for future generations,” said Joseph L. James, the Chairman of the Yurok Tribe. “On behalf of the Yurok Tribe, I would like to thank all of the individuals, agencies and organizations that helped us prepare to welcome prey-go-neesh (condor) back to our homeland.”

“The return of the condors to the skies over the redwoods represents a significant milestone in the restoration of this magnificent forest to its former glory,” remarked Redwood National and State Park Superintendent Steve Mietz. “This project is a model for listening to and following the lead of the park’s original stewards, healing both our relationship with the land and its original people.”

“The reintroduction of condors into Northern California is truly a monumental moment,” said Paul Souza, Regional Director for U.S. Fish and Wildlife Service Pacific Southwest Region. “This effort builds upon the program’s collective knowledge and history of releasing condors and showcases the benefit of partnering with Tribes and others to implement recovery of listed species.  We are proud to support this collaborative and innovative partnership with the Yurok Tribe and Redwood National Park.  Together we can recover listed species for future generations.”

The livestream will begin at 8 a.m. on the Yurok Tribe’s Facebook page, which can be found here: www.facebook.com/TheYurokTribe/. The livestream can also be viewed here: https://www.yuroktribe.org/yurok-condor-live-feed.

Comprised of biologists and technicians from the Yurok Tribe and Redwood National Park, the Northern California Condor Restoration Program (NCCRP) will collaboratively manage the flock from a newly constructed condor release and management facility in Northern California, near the Klamath River. The NCCRP team will work collaboratively with the other condor field teams as part of the larger California Condor Recovery Program guided by the U.S. Fish and Wildlife Service (Service).

Two more condors will be released at a later date. Staggering condor releases is a management strategy that allows close observation and management of individual birds. Following releases, biologists must monitor condors to see that they display appropriate behavior. The four condors, including one female and three males, are between two and four years old, which is within the ideal age range for the successfully releasing condors to thrive in the wild. Two of the males were hatched at the Peregrine Fund’s World Center for Birds of Prey in Idaho. The other two condors were hatched at the Oregon Zoo and raised at the Idaho center. In September, the four birds were transferred to the Ventana Wildlife Society’s flight pen in San Simeon while finishing touches were put on the NCCRP facility. They were transported to the NCCRP site in late March.

Over the last 30 years, the Service’s California Condor Recovery Program has developed an exceptionally effective blueprint to guide the reintroduction process, which begins long before the birds are released. For example, reintroduced condors are reared in large flight pens with exposure to the natural environment and when possible, other condors of various ages for mentorship. The extremely social avian scavengers acquire life skills from their elders and their own experiences. Elder or mentor birds assist the juvenile condors in obtaining the worldly knowledge they need to survive outside of captivity. The World Center for Birds of Prey provided the NCCRP a seven-year-old condor to fulfill this important function for the four birds as they transition into the wild. Condor 746 will remain in the flight pen and is expected to mentor future release birds at this location. Similar to the reintroduced condors in Arizona, the Northern California flock will be considered a nonessential, experimental population under the Endangered Species Act. This pragmatic approach was selected because it has proven to be an effective method of recovering federally listed species. Additionally, the stakeholder-driven strategy better facilitates proactive conservation and reduces the regulatory impact of reintroducing a federally listed species.

At regular intervals, the NCCRP will be releasing new condor cohorts into Redwood National Park. Over time, the birds are expected to disperse across Northern California and Southern Oregon. Through careful management, the NCCRP’s primary goal is to develop a self-sustaining condor population in the rural region, which will fill a currently vacant ecological niche in the redwood forest ecosystem as well as aid in the overall recovery of the species.

“Every year, the Yurok Tribe completes multiple, largescale river and forest habitat improvement projects in our ancestral territory. We also manage a 15,000-acre Old Growth Redwood-Forest and Salmon Sanctuary. Condor reintroduction is a major part of our long-term plan to restore the diverse ecosystems within our homeland,” said Frankie Myers, the Yurok Tribe’s Vice Chairman. “As a people, we will not recover from the traumas of the last century until we fix our environment because our culture, our ceremonies, our wellbeing and our identity are inextricably linked to the landscape.”

Yurok Connection to the Condor
For the Yurok Tribe, the recovery of this sacred species signifies significant progress toward the restoration of an intricately interconnected ecosystem and the people who are responsible for taking care of it. Prey-go-neesh plays a principal role in the Yurok creation story and is prominently featured in the Tribe’s White Deerskin Dance and Jump Dance. During the ten-day world renewal ceremonies, the condor is represented via the fallen feathers incorporated into tribal regalia and prayers for the earth and all of its inhabitants.

“The loss of the condor has limited our capacity to be Yurok because prey-go-neesh is such an important part of our culture and traditions. In a very real way, restoring condor habitat and returning condor to Yurok skies is a clear restoration of the Yurok people, homeland, ecological systems, culture, and lifeway,” added Yurok Wildlife Department Director Tiana Williams-Claussen, a Yurok citizen and traditional culture bearer, who has dedicated her entire professional career to condor reintroduction. “I have a 3-year-old-daughter. She is going to grow up with condors in her sky for her entire life. She is not going to know what it is to miss condors. She will always live in relationship with condors, which is really what this project is all about — bringing condor home, back into our communities, back into our conversations, back into our households, and into the minds and hearts of our children on behalf of the hearts of our elders.”

The Yurok Tribe started working in earnest on condor reintroduction in 2008.The Yurok received a tribal wildlife grant from the Service to conduct a study to determine if Yurok ancestral territory could still support North America’s largest terrestrial bird. 

With support from Redwood National Park, the Service and Bureau of Indian Affairs as well as the Administration for Native Americans, Pacific Gas and Electric and many other contributors, such as the Global Conservation Fund and the Redwood National Park Foundation, the Yurok Wildlife Department completed the tremendous amount of work required to reintroduce a critically endangered species. The following tasks represent a small fraction of what they had to accomplish in order to make condor reintroduction a reality: extensive environmental assessments, contaminant analyses, constant fundraising, planning, designing and constructing facilities, performing intensive community outreach and coordinating with numerous stakeholders and collaborators.
 
“The National Park Foundation is excited to be part of this collective effort to welcome the iconic California condors back to their historic range,” said Will Shafroth, president and CEO of the National Park Foundation (NPF). “This celebratory moment affirms the importance of long-term collaborations between the NPF, the National Park Service, Tribes, and other essential partners and should serve as a model for future partnerships.”
 
The Plight of the Condor
The decline of the condor started shortly after arrival of European settlers in the American West. During the Gold Rush era, numerous condors were shot for sport and collected for museum displays, while others succumbed to poisons used to eradicate large predators, such as grizzly bears and wolves. One of the first species placed on the federal endangered species list, condor numbers continuously plummeted from 1800 to the 1980s, when a fortuitous decision was made to collect the last 22 birds from the wild and establish the first captive breeding program to save the species. In 1983, the Service teamed up with the LA Zoo and San Diego Wild Animal Park to launch the first-ever captive breeding facilities. Today, thanks to the California Condor Recovery Program’s continued success, approximately 300 wild condors are flying free in California, the Southwest and Baja California. There are now four captive breeding centers, which supply birds for the release sites in the U.S. and Mexico, including the Northern California Condor Restoration Program facility.
 
On-the-ground efforts have been led by Senior Biologist and Yurok Condor Restoration Program Manager Chris West, who has nearly 25 years of condor research and management experience. Working in collaboration with the Ventana Wildlife Society, the Tribe designed and built the NCCRP release and management facility on National Parks land. The cutting-edge facility boasts a blend of the best elements from all of the rearing and release sites in the US. The flight pen has a simulated, shock-wired power pole (to teach the birds to avoid this threat after release), two four-foot diameter pools, and a perch overlooking the redwood forest. Two high-definition cameras stream a live feed from the site, which is available here. Yurok Condor Program staff can observe the birds on-site from custom-modified shipping containers which form a fire-resistant structure, complete with isolation pens, where birds will receive regular health assessments and treatment if needed.
 
“We are fortunate to be able to develop our program based on an immense quantity of Traditional Ecological Knowledge and thirty years of real-world condor recovery experience from our partners within the California Condor Recovery Program. We are truly standing on the shoulders of giants. For these reasons, I have no doubt that our reintroduction will serve as a gateway to bring the condor back to the Pacific Northwest,” concluded West."

 

Tuesday, May 3, 2022

Why I believe in public schooling

Kelvin and I both are products of public schools in this country.  I know many people who have chosen to send their children to (religious) private schools or to home school and, while they're entitled to their choices, I do not agree with the approach and I knew always that this would never be the path that our family took (and am thankful my husband feels the same way).  

I know (and which was confirmed with the year of "zoom") that I am not cut out in terms of patience to homeschool my own children. I do not have the desire nor the aptitude.  Home “piano lessons” are struggle enough. 

More importantly, however, is that children live in a society, not an isolated home or religious bubble. Denying young children the opportunity to learn from people and from perspectives different from those taught at home is, in my opinion, a disservice to them as people and actually harms society by perpetuating the unfamiliarity, if not the "fear," of ideas and others which/who are different (especially of people of different races and backgrounds) and encouraging extremism as we’ve seen (on the right) take over our country. 


I am so thankful to not live in a state like Florida where parents are trying to micromanage and override a public school curriculum with respects to our nation's complicated history. Thank goodness for “banned” books and I hope my kids read them all. While I do not agree with home schooling as a concept (the one exception being as an alternative to distance learning which was horrendous!), parents who really feel that public school curricula are damaging their kids are free to keep them out and stop interfering. Good luck when your kids enter the real world. 

Monday, May 2, 2022

In Memoriam


1 million. 

This is the current estimate of the COVID-19 death count to date, in the U.S. alone (and may even be an underestimate).  

I have known many friends, family members, colleagues, and patients who have contracted COVID-19, and had a few patients die from the disease (while, thankfully, people close to me have had overwhelming mild cases).

That being said, we are in an age of widespread, safe vaccination (and boosters) for those who understand and believe in science over conspiracy theories, as well as therapeutics. I also have heard that up to 75% of American children (possibly even my own, although no one has actually tested positive), and 60% of adults nationally have contracted the virus and have some degree of immunity, which means we are in a far different and better place than we were in 2020. 

Kelvin hosted a "Service Awards" event last week (which was a farewell of sorts to virtual events) celebrating years of service of employees of our FQHC (it's been >10 years for us both!).  Being a religious Oscars watcher, he decided to do an "In Memoriam" piece, which was a section in jest (we are not trying to make light of the innumerous deaths and devastation that COVID-19 has wrought on our country or our world). 

Here were his entries:

Betty White

Kane Tanaka (the oldest person in the world who survived 2 world wars, the 1918 flu pandemic, and cancer. She died at 119.)

Kane Tanaka, right, in 2019, when she was 116, during a ceremony in Fukuoka, Japan, to recognize her as the world’s oldest person.


March - Dec 2020 (which really, really sucked!)


All of 2021 (which, with exception of a pre-Delta summer, was also pretty rough)
 

Social Distancing

Wearing Masks Outdoors (finally ditched by public schools in CA in January 2022; the indoor mask mandate was revoked in March of 2022)
Should I Wear a Mask Outside Because of Coronavirus? – Cleveland Clinic

Blowing Out Candles with Your Own Breath (my Godparents used a hair dryer at a recent birthday!)

Will Smith's Acting Career

Will Smith slaps Chris Rock in shocking Oscars moment for Jada Pinkett Smith  joke - The Washington Post


... And, as of today, May 2nd, our youngest child (despite, sadly, not yet being vaccine-eligible) is allowed to take off his mask indoors at preschool ("Masks are OPTIONAL!" Niall reminded us).

                          July 2020 (age 2)


May 2, 2022  (age 4) 


We're so happy to be in this place when masks (and the constant worry about COVID) are starting to recede from day-to-day life. While we remember the millions (and counting) people who have lost their lives to COVID (and we understand that we all will likely get it at some point), we are ready to say goodbye to the things that have held us back these last two years.  In memoriam, masks (and here’s hoping that asymptomatic and pre-travel COVID testing especially for fully vaccinated individuals will get the axe in the near future).