Sunday, August 12, 2018

Off to See the Wizard!


When I saw a flier for Humboldt Light Opera Company's production of The Wizard of Oz (while at the library one day), my interest was immediately piqued. Having grown up without cable, movies (on VHS) were a mainstay of my childhood. I don't even know how many times I watched some of those in my parents' collection-- Beaches, The Sound of Music, the Wizard of Oz, among others. 

I wondered whether our energetic three-year-old would be able to sit through such a play.  He doesn't do screen time very often, and his attention span in the past has been on the order of 15-20 minutes. He's also reluctant to try new things (swim lessons without a parent in the pool were a recent fail).  Before we purchased tickets, we thought we'd "test out" his interest by showing him the classic 1939 movie. HE. LOVED. IT. 

He loves the music, he loves the characters, and he loves imitating the Wicked Witch "I'm melllllting!" For me, it was so fun to watch the movie again (the first time I'd watched it as a parent!) through a (my) child's eyes.  And, since the first day we showed it to him, he's watched it (in parts) at least three more full times (it's hard to discourage the viewing of classics!) and has been talking about it nonstop for weeks.

Today was the *big day* when he and I went on a mommy-son date to HSU's Van Duzer theater to see the musical.  I bought him these "ruby slippers" online after he'd seen the movie, and, alas, they are quite definitely pink and not red, but he still loves them and wanted to wear them to the show.




They'd decorated the foyer with displays from the movie (our stripey outfits were not worn with the intent to match the witch's stockings!).

 

The show was was so fabulous.  We had front-row seats, right by the orchestra pit, and Iver sat quietly on my lap through the entire 2.5-hour (including a 30-minute intermission) play, engrossed.  I giggled at the wittiness of the script and the quality of the acting--the Lion, who put on an accent exactly that like Bert Lahr in the movie, and the Wicked Witch were my favorites, but the Lollipop Guild and Lullaby League kids were so adorable too.   Sitting there with my spirited toddler snuggled on my lap for a couple of hours of relaxing entertainment was so enjoyable that I teared up. It's been a rough three and a half years between sleep deprivation and power struggles and particularly with the addition of baby #2, but bonding over a mutual love of the Wizard of Oz made me so appreciate having this little guy in my life.


After the bows, the characters (still in costume) came down to the theater floor and to the lobby to greet guests as we exited. Iver didn't want to take a photo with any, but he did say to me, "Hey! Why is the witch out here? Isn't she supposed to be dead?" :)

And because he's decided that he's over naps (although he needs them sometimes because bedtimes are still a fight) and the show was early afternoon when normally he'd have napped, he passed out in the car on the way home...


... and then proceeded to throw a 2-hour tantrum over not wanting dinner, among other things, before he fell asleep, exhausted.   I still think that going to the show was totally worth it.  He'll remember it for a long time (as will I).

But there is no place like home (bed).

* ADDENDUM*

We recently attended Hudson's birthday party, from which Iver received a goody bag including a lego lollipop. I finally relented and let him open it, and he busted out spontaneously with this:


Also a drawing:


What a funny boy!

8 years, 3 kids, a lotta stripes



Judo Hut Joy


We stopped in at the Judo Hut on Saturday for some gym time. The happy boys had a blast!

 




Sam was a good sport in "chasing" Connor and Iver! 


It's sweet seeing these guys be good buds!










Saturday, August 11, 2018

Future Bruin?


(Of course, he knows he can be a Spider, or any other mascot, too-- he is quite partial to Lucky the [HSU] Lumberjack)!

Tuesday, August 7, 2018

(Ketchup and) Mustard Men!





Kelvin's condiment shirt was an oldie but thanks to auntie Kat for Iver's ketchup 'n mustard tee!

Monday, July 30, 2018

Backyard camping: a sleep treat


Do all other parents feel like they've been fighting children's sleep from day 1 and that this struggle lasts years? (Fighting sleep battles is, by far, the most frustrating part of parenting for me and something about which I seem to obsess about constantly).  The drama has continued in our house (mainly for 3.5-year-old Iver. Niall [almost 6 months] has been sleeping very well, in my opinion, going down easily and often doing a 6- or 7-hour stretch with one [or two] wakings, and eating only once or twice after 2 a.m. [sometimes he wakes around 11 p.m. or midnight, but we let him fuss and he puts himself back to sleep, usually by rolling to his stomach]. Naps are a different story, but the consistency of allowing him to self-soothe to sleep during the day is not enforceable yet, so we may have to wait on this aspect until next month).

 Iver, who could probably drop his nap altogether (except that he still naps at school), is on about his fifth consecutive month (?150 days?!) of stalling/fighting at bedtime ("I don't want to sleep, I hate my room, I need to pee, I'm really, really scared...") and we frequently have to follow through with locking him in via the door monkey if he keeps escaping or won't stop screaming.  We have the same shower-books-hugs-stories-last "goodnight," routine and despite ignoring him subsequently, it hasn't extinguished his behavior. 


From Facebook: When it's bedtime... (my child on the left).


 
We also have tried to incentivize good bedtime behavior by giving him "cards" in the morning if he goes down without a fight, which he can redeem for fun things. It sometimes (but not always) gets him to comply (I really don't understand how such a bright little guy chooses to be purposely defiant with no payoff). Recently, he has been wanting to camp out in the back yard, which we told him required five cards, so he tried really hard last week, and bought himself a Saturday night camping date with Papa.  He got to use this children's sleeping bag that Danny gave him when he was a baby!

Here's the afternoon set-up
 

pretending to nap (he could not be convinced to nap in the tent)


Gleeful!







as it got dark...


Kelvin reported that he didn't sleep that well in the tent-- he heard Niall crying at 11, then a plane flying over them later, then had some insomnia, but that Iver slept through the night very well!  Let's see if he can get five more cards this week... or maybe he can have the tent be his new bedroom (the screaming will sound less loud from out there...).

Sunday, July 29, 2018

The Green Team!

The weekends are for matching, apparently!

It usually goes something like this:
Kelvin: I'm wearing a ---- shirt today.
Iver: Let me go find a matching one! And then put Niall in something similar!

Here are some great pictures we caught of the "Boys" today in some lime green shirts (Iver's is a gift from my Dad from his recent trip to Mongolia). Did I feel left out? No! I don't think I own (nor desire to own) anything that color!  What was even more impressive than having three-of-three smiling subjects in some photos is that the outfits survived the day without any major spills or explosions!