Sunday, January 8, 2012

A Full House (Trinidad, Samoa, and a weekend of hosting!)



We have had a full house in Arcata this weekend. Kelvin and I were both on call (he on phone triage, me on OB call) and so we had to stay local, but were fortunate to have our residency friends Kimie (who is here for 2 weeks doing a rotation with Kelvin) and Wai Kiu, Hanh, and Mason here up from Oakland. While I did have rounding and one delivery and K had quite a lot of patient calls, we did have a good amount of time to spend with our guests.

On Saturday, we took them up to Trinidad, the picturesque coastal fishing town north of here, which is one of the oldest (and smallest-- the 2010 census had its population at 367!) incorporated towns in California. We had heard good things about, but had never made it to Trinidad Head, a peninsula of land with great ocean vistas. We all (including Mason, and Pepper) enjoyed the beach at Trinidad, views from the overlook trail, and the weather (50s and sunny!).















Pseudo-family


Only Asians ruthlessly ask other unsuspecting hikers to take group shots...


We stopped at Katy's smokehouse for some locally-smoked seafood (sturgeon, oysters, salmon) to take home.



We then took the crew to the Samoa Cookhouse in Eureka, which, as you can see from this plaque, is the oldest surviving and operating cookhouse in the West, opening in 1893. Formerly the Hammond Lumber Company Cookhouse, it was the official cookhouse for the men employed in logging in redwood country.


We had a very hearty meal served family-style, including soup, salad, awesome freshly-baked bread, roast beef, beans, peas, coffee, tea, and pineapple cake for dessert. MMM.



Kelvin has been coaching a kids' basketball team in Eureka with games on Saturdays.
We attended to support them, and here are some shots of him and his little third- and fourth-graders who, despite a great effort, lost 8-16 to their opponents.






Josh (co-coach) giving some more advice


Mason and Kimie played a bit in our neighborhood park:



(This kiddie rock wall is awesome!)


... and we then enjoyed dinner and a relaxing night at home, with the others watching and me sleeping through "Planet of the Apes."

Here are some pictures of Mason interacting with Pepper:

Two cuties


(wondering what to do with the detangler)


Mason wanted to share the dog bed...


.. which worked for a little while.


But Mason leans back...


... and she is outta there!


Today, Kelvin took everyone to the Victorian town of Ferndale as well as to see the big trees at the Avenue of the Giants, while I had to stay back in order to be closer to the hospital. Here are some great shots of the fun I missed, taken by the great Wai Kiu!





Mason in the tree house!


Who wants to be our next visitors?

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Six months and just a dog

January 2nd was the six-month anniversary of our wedding. I am not a big anniversary-celebrator. I am not much for flowers, cards, or cheesy other things that go along with celebrating silly little milestones (or Valentine's Day-- I can't believe there's already stuff out in the stores). Twenty-five years? Probably worth celebrating. Six months? Not so much. Actually, I am not sure I would have remembered this half-year milestone had it not be for this little email I received from TheBump.com (sister site to "The Knot," which was actually a decent site for help with wedding planning) entitled "It's been 6 months since your wedding...":


With TheBump.com you can:

- Find a friend's baby registry
• Search for baby shower ideas
• Forward this email to a friend

• Get pregnant faster with our must-have tools
• Get stage-by-stage pregnancy and baby advice
• Chat 24/7 with other women trying to conceive


Geez!! I was a bit offended by this e-mail, actually. It presumes that, six months into a marriage, I should be well on the road towards planning imminent childbearing. Certainly well aware of all the risks of AMA ("Advanced Maternal Age") pregnancies (pregnancies where the woman will be over the "old" age of 35 at time of delivery), I have nothing against people trying to conceive soon after their wedding or at an age when they are definitely more fertile. Many people have been with their partners forever, regardless of when they tied the knot, and are ready to get the child-rearing show-on-the-road. However, I was 29 at the time of our wedding, and while I am lagging well behind most (er... pretty much all) friends in the baby-department, and do really love OB/pregnancy care and counseling as part of my job, I am not really one of those "can't wait to get pregnant" people.


I personally think that 2 years is a minimum to be married before contemplating children and feel that 4 years is the optimal interval between children if you can plan it that way. I think six months of marriage may be an appropriate time frame after which one might think one can handle a dog, but (for me), it is definitely too soon to contemplate trying for a child. I do want children. I just do not want them yet.


So, The Bump, I think I'm going to have to ignore your e-mail for now. Try me again in a couple of years. And, to friends and family, please don't expect any "announcements" anytime soon :)


Sunday, January 1, 2012

2011 in Pictorial Review (Part 2 - Humboldt)

The second half of 2011 was spent adjusting to our new life in Humboldt County.

SEPTEMBER
Getting settled
Painting that awful green room!


Exploring Humboldt Trails and Treasures
Fern Canyon


Patrick's Point SP


Kelvin's birthday lobster (Moonstone Grill)




OCTOBER
Danny & Chamreun drove 12 hours each way for some darn good oysters!


NOVEMBER
Serena, Brad, and Shabu see the Redwoods


The start of my thirties!


"Home" to OC for Thanksgiving!


And, finally, December:

Christmas in Ashland...


... and a new family member, Pepper...


It was a fabulous year, and we are excited to see what 2012 will bring!

Best of 2011 (the year in pictures- Part 1)


It is now 2012!
Here is a recap of our 2011 in pictures (part 1-- blogger restricted my #/size of photos to upload; boo!). It was a fabulous year!

JANUARY
We spent MLK weekend enjoying winter in Yosemite


FEBRUARY
Tomales Bay Oyster Shucking


MARCH
Costa Rica!


APRIL
Death Valley NP




MAY
Engagement shoot


Bay-to-Breakers Race



Memorial Day Weekend:
Kimie/Vin's wedding


Orange County!


Catalina Island


JUNE
We graduated residency!

FP graduation


OB graduation



JULY
We tied the knot!





We honeymooned in Bali (Indonesia), Malaysia, and Singapore






Stay tuned for Part 2- Life in Humboldt Co. :)