I rarely make a big deal of birthdays. Every year I feel older, I seem to feel less and less like "celebrating." With COVID, we have done so little socializing that I don't even know how to "plan" anything. Ever the introvert (who goes to bed by 9:30 or 10 p.m.), I'm also not much into parties, large social gatherings, or late-night debauchery. However, my good friend Kellie suggested doing at least something for this year's milestone birthday. I opted for an outdoor walk/hike on Saturday at the Ma-le'l Dunes with some good local friends. It was a stunningly lovely sunny weekend, and it was really nice to celebrate in low-key style outdoors with friends and conversation on our beautiful coast.
from left: Val, Molly, Karen, Peggy, me, and Karen (Kellie with the camera)

Kelvin gifted me a kid-free weekend to watch tennis last month. However, early last week, he heard about an HSU basketball game featuring ex-NBA player and Hall-of-Famer, now coach, Gary Payton, and secured babysitting (thanks, teacher Gloria!) on Saturday for our first local date night in probably two years so we could catch the action.
We ate sushi dinner at Tomo, where the oyster shooters are to die for.
We enjoyed fairly close (cushioned) seats near half court.
The bald guy in the middle is former Seattle SuperSonic, Gary Payton, who coaches Lincoln University. His youngest son, Julian, plays on his team, while another son, Gary Payton II, plays for the NBA team Golden State Warriors.
(jersey throwback)
Kelvin thought this LU center was the spitting image of Charles Barkley!
While HSU led early, LU took over in the second half, where it led the entire way until the last minute or so. It was an exciting finish, where our home team, HSU claimed the lead and won by three!
On my actual birthday, I got to "sleep in" (until 6:40).
Iver made this lovely card (with a "COVID" that jumped out at me-- can you spot it?!). He asked me "What do you want for your birthday?" to which I replied, "Obedience." "But that's the same as you asked for last year!" he commented.
a few gifts... some lovely books
... and a lucky pineapple bamboo from my parents.
The kids were extremely enthralled by the plant's packing peanuts, making for some not-so-happy birthday cleaning for us (/me).
In the afternoon, we took the kids to Arcata's Finnish hot tubs/sauna, Cafe Mokka, which was a hit!
Fro-yo treat at Ultimate Yogurt
("This was the best Mama's birthday ever!" said Iver).
How it started (one-year-old cake photos that my mom sent me):
How my 40th ended: Kelvin popped open some high-end champagne because, well, you only turn 40 once.
Thank you to all who reached out to wish me a happy day! It was a nice, quiet but happy weekend, which is just my style!
Here's to middle age (officially!).